With all the division, hate and violence permeating our world these days, it’s hard not to feel fear and intimidation. Martin Luther King, Jr aid “The only way to convert an enemy into a friend is through love.”
Dr. Wayne Dyer used to talk a lot about those we’re told to hate. Here’s how he used to spell it out:
Throughout our history, there has been a long list of those we’ve been conditioned to hate. The British, French, Spanish, Germans, Japanese, Russians, Communists, Northern Koreans, Vietnamese, Iranians, Taliban, and both northerners and southerners in our own country are some of the people we’ve been encouraged at various times to call enemies and to hate. The list is long, and as time passes, those we were assigned to hate we later were told should be removed from our hate list. The enemy is obviously hatred itself . . .
Love heals all. It doesn’t negate the horror or the pain that we had to navigate to get there. That’s just the journey we all have to tread. It’s necessary to go through that, in order to get to the other side. Our trip will take it’s detours – but that’s just part of the design. It gives us time to develop the emotional muscles to endure the reality, and when we are ready, the reality appears. The timing is not ours; it is divine order. But when we find the love and the ability to let go and experience the freedom, we can bask in the love that gave birth to each of us.
I hope you will take a few minutes this week to examine the path you’ve been on. Things have been so divided lately, that I’m guessing all of us has someone in our lives that we just don’t understand. They’re SO different. Don’t run from that and retreat to the comfort of your own tribe. Seek them out; talk to them. Ask questions about why they are the way they are, or did something they did. Share something from your life. Talk about your beliefs – and why you believe that way. I’ll bet you’ll find you have more in common with each other, than is different.
“People fail to get along because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don’t know each other; they don’t know each other because they have not communicated with each other.”
-Martin Luther King, Jr